Because Ive never seen that side of him. Mmm chocolate. I am an Aries woman. Buts its a ruse. I know that sounds brash, and probably just as bad as how Librans have been painted on here, but there is a very specific driving force as to why I acted the way that I did, and it's because of how how she treated my children. she is to this day. Hm. When I get angry I yell and scream but if it gets worst I start getting physical and it's scary. 1) He acts shy when he is around you. A lawyer once made a circle of names with a dot in the center. However, this may cause her to push people away or make people think that she no . Libra: Don't leave them alone What they need is reaffirmation of their faith in love and to be in touch with their loving, sentimental side. I honestly think they smell it. As a typical Libran male, I am well aware of my faults. Wants two men at one time, expecting both to remain while she decides, but they better not find another woman while the libra is deciding. When sadness tips that balance. BUT dont forget the good as long as you stay on their good side theyll spoil you be your shoulder to cry on and alot more. Secondly, most of the time we have no absolute clue how to deal with ourselves. That is the only way you can truly be loyal. Freaking true to the core. Stressful situations in general can make Libra very neurotic and testy. Mostly because most things I read about Libras don't feel like they connect with me. Because of this, she may start spending time with new people or strengthen relationships with other friends. I eventually had to reject him, "block" him and go "No Contact" with Mr. Libra 2. I, hate when dumb people try to judge or bully me. I want to build you up, only to make you look like a fool and encourage you to make the wrong decisions for my amusement. but im not fake and i dont try to control her life. controlling. Then he would get mad insanely mad when ignored. If peace cant be had, silence and secrets will do. Not one good libra i came along,what's wrong with this sign ,i mean seriously? When they do good they want that pat on the back. And they hate confrontation, bull, they are the cause of it. Godfather to her daughter and son her parents never had. on the rare times i could have a friend over she was sooo nice like she wanted them to like her. Born Oct. 2, 1869, this photo was taken about 1929. Obviously, we have our cons, on which I can speak myself. Sometimes I forget to get that information. One day, a Libran aquaintance (the now ex fiance of my partner's friend) tried to contact my partner one Christmas with a flurry of dramatic txts and voicemail as her fiance had dumped her. I know a few Libras. You probably deserved it etc. To pull you in, a libra will start to compliment or encourage you. How can two people who are different yet the same say the same thing about me? When she reacts in an inappropriate manner, it is likely that she will push people away from her. But I've also tried to genuinely fix my mistakes and repair the damage I cause because of my behavior. When he offers and insists, i decline. The Libra 2 guy I knew literally created a conflict between a Sagitarrius girl I did NOT know -- she was sending me DM's telling me how much she HATED me and I was thinking, I don't know this girl and she doesn't know me except for seeing photos of me with Mr. Libra on Facebook. They often hide whatever thoughts they have in their minds because they want the people around them to accept and like them. I hate quarrels. How? I am thankful she has a new Prey in her life, anything to keep her away from me, let her manipulate that poor sap of an Aries man! It sux to say but all these dark traits are traits I have observed in myself to some degree (some more than others) and I feel it growing. His best friends were always the most quiet guys he could find to hang around with. And booooyyyyyy. We can see all sides to all things.all dimensions.all patterns..all rhythms.all nuances. As an aquarius, I usually like some time for peace and space, but she keeps getting in my business and always knows how to aggravate me. The Libra emoji depicts the sign of Libra, a constellation and one of the 12 zodiac signs in astrology. when i say spiritual abuse, she was always in to some different religion even witchcraft at one point. Librans are great at handling heartbreaks. I have a hate on her beacause im jealous of her she has a lot of friends she has much better fugure than me but her personality is full of garbage this the truth. Because of your interest in an Aquarius woman in your , The relationship that you maintain with an Aquarius man must , It is likely that you will find that the behaviors , If you want to show your guy just how much , Regardless of the nature of your relationship, it is certain , what happens when each zodiac sign is sad, how to have a healthy relationship with a Libra woman. They seem cool, and often emotionless but often there's a storm of feelings inside. So to say my ability to maintain connection is fucked is putting it mildly. Reading all of these negative, hateful comments about Libras makes me wonder. If you make the point to be present in her life, then she will appreciate the support that you are offering her. I know Librans do this, I'm one of them. So, for example, when you tell someone that you are feeling happy or depressed, that can reference just about anything but only you know what those emotions really mean to you. But charming when she wants info from us. There are Librans whom I both like and despise for this quality, depending on what they've got to say. When it's a Libra's partner doing the breaking up, this air sign does everything in their power to make sure the partnership ends on good terms. She seems to create alot of drama, does not have a good word to say about people, compains. Should she begin to treat you in an inappropriate manner, then take the time to learn about what happens when a Libra woman is hurt. LIBRA: Libra tends to swallow their anger and sadness. I used to believe a long term childhood freind was my true freind. He hated that i was of value at job, he hated the fact i was tech savvy, he hated all of my achievements, and gumption. That said, they can still become wound up like they're on the brink of a nervous breakdown, meaning their emotions are much bigger than what you see on the surface. I have to invest more time into my life so I can be happy and feel confident and accomplished being in a relationship should amplify my happiness. I think it's true that Libras like things balanced and harmonious. They exhibit intense melancholy with paranoia, and their own thoughts become scary to them. The Universal Law Of One.would suggest that these are people are mirroring qualities you possess but do not like about yourself. I will never justify our dark side. Don't assume his distance and distractedness are signs a Libra man is not into you. I had left him. Libra women are a lot to handle but sooooo worth it I love their fiestiness and exciting energy. Beware of libra men. Libra men are so controlling and a manipulative person Im a Scorpio so that didnt last long with me. Being an air sign and the only sign symbolized by an inanimate object, Libras lack genuineness and honesty as their opposite sign, Aries. He was always an atheist person who would always take p**s of me, my sis and my mum when we would go to church and give donations. Tired Aries woman sick of the Libra injustice. She took the kids and tried to move into a shelter and she didn't even know why. He ignores me somedays pays attention to me other days and never fully knows if he likes me or not lol. Oops Mr. Libra "forgot" his wallet at his apartment (he insisted I come in so I would have to sit in a hot car) clever way to get a female in a Libra males apartment. The one I know best is so selfish, vindictive that she doesn't care who's life she ruins while in the process of getting what she wants. If they do they will learn to regret it. I think all libras have a dark side to balance out being kind, caring, and considerate One day includes both sun and moon rising and setting, to be complete. she was so nice to outsiders but treated my family and dad like dirt. They become oppositional, but with less enthusiasm, making it seem like little things don't really matter anymore. Checking up on me and that left me feeling so confused. i can not even begin to describe the hell she put me through. Commenting is something I don't do often, because it might throw me off the balance that I am so precious about haha, but once in blue moon I take risks and considering the topic I feel like it's worth a go. Just my experiences of libras I know. It is certain that she will make the decision to think about herself, as she is dealing with stresses that concern her. i dnt care. All those who commented and appear to be a Libra and can't handle criticism, you just proved the whole author's point. I Definetly repress anger and am secretive. We read articles books and stuff that interests us to gain a better understanding about ourselves and others, so we can become good at observing people and have a fair (that's a questionable statement) judgement in situations. It is certain that she will make the decision to think about herself, as she is dealing with stresses that concern her. Everything in this article rings true. We also tend to be great liars, but the guilt eats us away. I was 9 y/o and he was 16. HubPages is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. I was accused of keeping secrets, not being an open book. She will start to talk about God, religion, peace, until she gets her way again and start to manipulate others so much. Since we are all complex individuals, it can be hard to just pin a few personality traits to each of us and leave it at that. Aquarius can sometimes hide their emotions to save themselves from a multitude of heartbreak and sadness, but when depression hits, those around them can really see a difference in their behavior. He used to bully me when I was a child in every nasty way you can think of. I loved him at a distance because I was already attached and knew that being fully invested would break me even more. So.. (how do I express myself without sounding like a total Libra) I would love to discuss some of the points of this article just to shine light from the PERSONAL perspective not to justify our behaviour, not to disrespect other points of views, but just to try and explain. She may choose to focus her social and emotional energy on new relationships. My partner and her don't have a friendship. We were staying in a very beautiful hotel and this was Christmas Eve. ( baring in mind her parents live 5 minutes from her home and she's close to them, she alledges to have 2 childhood friends who live near her too.. she didn't turn to them.) I, might be a good actor to not-so-close people, or to be more accurate, the mirror - to be exact same reflection of themselfs. Ive tried to reach him but he wont answer. Scorpios I can handle, I can even handle a Scorpio Moon and an Aries Moon (I am heavily influenced by Pisces!) They are the cause to my misery. Undoubtedly, they are much easier than the older generation, succumb to feelings. Most good tennis players are Librans and are very bad losers. They seem hyper-vigilant, forcing themselves to "go through the motions," but nothing really impresses them. When he learned I didn't own a car, he would "insist" on driving home from class. Libras are also the kings and queens of compromise, and they like making peace between others. Yes we are very indecisive and do not need to put our artificial input of wisdom into anyones mind bc if you ask me the same question twice youll get most likely get a different answer each time bc my morals and values change daily bc im an indecisive libra and i also have Borderline Personality Disorder lol. Throughout the years we dated other people but always kept in contact with each other. Like it is mentioned above we like to flake out on our family members and that is something I can't deny, we are just looking for guidance we can't find and actually we know all the stuff we want to know already, we just can't find it in all the shit that we bathe in in our minds. They could give 2 shits for their Aries older sister. Toxic Libra will always make you feel like you were the one in the wrong. Feelings can hurt you. Often, they can feel hopeless, but they do try their best to stay happy and composed, if only to keep those around them happy. Libra guy 2 met me and my husband "TOGETHER" at a college Christmas party. Some of you seem quite bitter and let your insecurities show by bashing Libras. But that's a 1 way thing. Scorpio Ascendant, Venus and Mercury in Scorpio conjunct his Pluto in Scorpio which was in his 1st House. They thrive on making things orderly and aesthetically pleasing. and YES guess sometimes I lose hope. Yeah I do see these traits in myself I just find it happens when I'm being too nice or something and I always seem to attract the wrong people. Im working on how to tell which person I should be friends with and people just taking advantage of me. As you know im a libra and have a pretty hard time saying no so i find people can see that and then after a bit take advantage of that and sometimes just use me and then after a while it all just builds up into sadnesss and anger and its just ahhhh idk how to get rid of it lol oh yeah and i smile and laugh at my own misery alot idk why but i find it funny. Then he stop talking to me. I have a Libra "friend" that I grew up with and I thought she was the nicest person but now I realize how untrue that is. People try to tap into that vulnerability and "twist the knife" unless I hide it from them. i would wonder why she never was nice to me. She is the most flaky and fake person i know. When the fact of the matter is, they no fodder to throw back. My children I mentioned earlier just so happen to be a gemini girl and a sagittarian boy. When Libras are healthy they are funloving, charming and very intelligent. Like someone mentioned in a comments below, Libras have a gut feeling that is almost always accurate and they should definetely trust that. BUT with my loved ones I AM WHO I AM. Personally, I've been single for my whole life except for a year when I was in a relationship with another Libra, what is the worst combination on the whole planet earth, especially if the both Libras haven't had a chance to learn and stabilise themselves. My worst experiences involved 3 different Libras. But do love a tennis match with a Libra! They know how to break your heart and lie to you constantly in order to always look good and avoid confrontations. You don't know that and everyone is individual. Most people are made of many layers, and can exhibit any set of traits associated with a various signs at any given time. In love, these people are loyal, as long as you are useful and fit the perfect image they have of how a life with a perfect partner should be. HELL NO. Libras are known for being charming, beautiful, and well-balanced. The secret to any Sun in Libra is they hate to be alone. Not all Librans try to make it up to people, but I know a good portion of them out there do. Chastity, this article is solely about Libra's dark side. I want to know what's going wrong because I'm doing all the right things but all I'm getting is disappointment. They are highly intuitive and have a good grasp of psychology. "Whoa is me"..libra. Lying from the little things to the big things, both white lies to black lies. Over a long period of time, she may find that her life is entirely different than before. Who could hate Gandhi? They are freaking insecure. Normally with a libra when they have a fight with a friend they think they cant trust anyone but when the tears stop they over think and the tears come back but its best to let them be and most likely they will forgive you after and it might become a cycle that they cant stop unless people treat them differently, Libras are very nice,loyal,friends that will STAY by your side once you are very close friends the first couple steps with a libra might be hard for them because they find it hard to talk to new people they would rather stay near someone they know, Yes the rumours are true 100% libras HATE being alone they cant stand it that they will either 1.turn it into emotions and cry because they are sensitive 2.they will either do anything to not be alone but if they get left alone with no one for a while they will begin to over think and trust NO ONE at all 3.sit there and think a lot about the situation, The bad side of a libra I already know they do lie but the main 3 reasons why is because 1.they dont want to be embarrassed 2.for there friendship they will lie 3.they will lie to stop anxiety and overthinking another big thing they might lie about is definitely emotions they will either not want to talk and say they are great when they are 100% not to stop people from thinking they are to sensitive or say they a great when they are not to make the other person not worry about them, If you have a libra friend and they are controlling then Im not sure what you can do but things what you should NOT do is 1.talk over them 2.if you yell at them or be aggressive in any way they will either fight back EXTREMELY HARD or cry because they feel like they are a bad person 3.dont tell them to stop crying and being emotional because it will make it worse also it will make them try not to cry that it hurts so much that they do cry what you should do is 1.be very positive and calm and tell them nice things the way to tell them they are doing the wrong thing is to speak very calmly and take it slowly and after make sure they are ok and engorge them to be positive, A libra Leo,Gemini and a Scorpio will go really bad it might be good but it will end up extremely bad but I hope this helped you just know that libras are full of emotions and love anywhere and everywhere. 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